Category Archives: INFP

G is for Guilt

I think about a lot of things when I first start to wake up.  Something about that not asleep, not awake state brings up long forgotten memories.  Recently, I woke up thinking about something I’ve been feeling bad about since college. … Continue reading

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I cry every single time I tell this story

My actor friend in California told me I was a method actor.  He first said it as a result of hearing this story.  The set-up to the story (not the part that makes me cry) is this: The first year … Continue reading

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Thurston Wallace Martin

Joining the cast of the Medieval Faire was the best thing I have ever done (for me) in my entire life.  The people in the cast brought me back to life.  I had left my abusive spouse, and during my … Continue reading

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“Don’t worry. You’ll be fine.”

In August of 2008, a friend I worked with asked me if I wanted to join him and his wife when they went to the local Medieval Faire that Saturday.  I had left an abusive relationship 11 months previously, and I had … Continue reading

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And then, in a most cowardly fashion…

On 8/31/2007, I had a fantasy football draft after work.  My second wife, who was Controlling, Insecure, Needy, Desperate, and Yelled at me a lot (Cindy) was home alone while I was out.  I got home after the draft, and when I … Continue reading

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Wah. Wah. Wah.

I’m being a crabby jerk, which is very unlike me.  Like Meg Ryan wrote to Tom Hanks in You’ve Got Mail.  “I was cruel, and I’m never cruel.” I have several lame excuses; I won’t even call them reasons.  A project … Continue reading

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Avoidence

It’s amazing how many other things you can get done when you are avoiding a post that you’ve been trying to write for a week.

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I am not a Republican. I do, however, like elephants.

I was raised a Presbyterian.  My mom said we started off Baptist, but switched at my father’s request.  She said at one time, he was very active in church.  I remember going every Sunday to church and Sunday School until … Continue reading

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I don’t get mad very often…

INFP’s have a profound sense of idealism that comes from a strong personal sense of right and wrong.  INFPs are flexible and laid-back, until one of their values is violated.  In the face of their value system being threatened, INFPs … Continue reading

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Me teaching me to teach me to teach

I was reading another blog today, which I have a tendency to do when the Melon Collies are disturbing my thought process.  The person I was reading mentioned that she avoids conflict all the time.  Which is a one of … Continue reading

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